Tuesday, May 03, 2022
Life is Precious
Thursday, September 20, 2018
Marriage - The Husband Part 2 - Honor Your Wife
Husbands are commanded to honor their wives but too often the husbands feel like their wives are honored simply for having him as a husband... uh, no!
Let's first seek to understand what the Apostle Peter was saying, by understanding what the word "honor" means and how it is used in this context.
To honor your wife is to consider the value your wife possesses. In other words, her worth. We can make the mistake of thinking that the value our wives possess is the worth we give her, from our perspective. This can be skewed, biased and inaccurate, because more than likely we are considering all of her shortcomings and base her value on her performance, according to what we expect, rather than something that goes beyond our perspective.
The value our wives possess has nothing to do with performance, but rather the value she has in the eyes of the Lord. This is a value that does not diminish nor is it dependent on performance because it is the value that a child has in the eyes of a father. Psalm 8:4 - "what is man that you are mindful of him, and the son of man that you care for him?"
Secondly, honor refers to a value that is given to ONLY one person. This worth and value is given and known only in your wife and not shared with anyone else. To regard her as anything less or to share or even shift her value to someone else is to be unfaithful to her as a husband.
Too often husbands make the mistake of sharing this value with someone else, when their wives are the only ones that should possess this value in their eyes.
So, to honor our wives is to see the value in them that they have before the Lord, which is unchanging. We are to handle our wives like a person who is precious to God and precious to us - of GREAT VALUE. We are to make sure our wives have the proper place in our lives that belong only to them and never share that or transfer it at any time and for any reason to someone else... they have exclusive rights as our wives.
Remember, Proverbs 31:10-11 - "An excellent wife who can find? She is far more precious than jewels. The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain."
Friday, June 09, 2017
Marriage - The Husband Part 1 - Dwell with Her in an Understanding Way
Friday, June 02, 2017
Never Abandoned
There are good examples and there are poor examples. But God is not the reflection of earthly parenting, but is the perfect Father who cares for His children perfectly.
He gives warnings to serve us as safeguards and sign posts of danger, but at the same time He assures us of His blessings when we love Him through our obedience to Him (John 14:15).
One thing we can be sure of, He never leaves nor forakes those who are His (Hebrews 13:5). He disciplines those He loves (Hebrews 12:6), But He will never turn His back and reject.
God is the perfect Father who will never abandon us. May His love draw us closer to Him and may we choose to live a life that reflects that love in obedience to His Word.
Friday, August 05, 2016
Learning to Walk
No kid learning how to walk and having fallen a hundred times gets up and says, "Maybe this just isn't for me."
Nope! And neither should anyone learning how to walk with Jesus.
John 6:45 – "It is written in the Prophets, 'And they will all be taught by God.' Everyone who has heard and learned from the Father comes to Me."
Jesus was quoting from Isaiah 54:13 – "All your children shall be taught by the LORD, and great shall be the peace of your children."
As adults we take walking for granted, but there was a time when it was the most difficult thing to do.
If you're just learning how to walk with Jesus, I encourage you to NEVER give up! Keep Reading the Bible, Keep Praying, Keep Going to Church… just KEEP LEARNING.
One day you will look back and realize you've been walking upright for a while with the Lord and you're at peace.
Learn to Walk with Jesus and then Keep Walking.
And He said to them, "Follow Me, and I will make you fishers of men." – Matthew 4:19
Friday, September 04, 2015
Rejoice and Take Joy!
I believe we all do at some point or another. No one is exempt from feeling depressed; even when things seem to be going good and you're surrounded with people, you may feel alone and somewhat empty. It's at that time when we need to look to the Lord and fix our eyes on Him.
Habakkuk 3:17-19 - "Though the fig tree should not blossom, nor fruit be on the vines, the produce of the olive fail and the fields yield no food, the flock be cut off from the fold and there be no herd in the stalls, yet I will rejoice in the LORD; I will take joy in the God of my salvation. God, the LORD, is my strength; He makes my feet like the deer's; He makes me tread on my high places. To the choirmaster: with stringed instruments."
You often read verse 19, but hardly the verses before it... It puts things into proper perspective and helps you understand in what circumstances you can walk surely upon the dangerous cliffs of disappointment, of lack, of a desert-like season in life and of feeling alone.
Be encouraged, you're not alone. God is with you and He is your strength and He makes your steps sure...have confidence that He will not let you fall.
These verses are a song unto the LORD... praising Him.
Feeling down? Look up to the Lord, He will lift your head up. Feeling alone? Look around, the Lord is with you. Feeling out of sorts? Look within, the Spirit of God is holding you together.
Sing unto the Lord and trust in Him. Praise and Worship Him for He is worthy.
May He be your joy and your strength in all times and in all places.
God Bless you - Pastor Raul
Tuesday, September 01, 2015
Idolatry - The Worship of a Whore
Idolatry is defined by God as NOT ONLY the worship of an image that represents a god, but the turning away from trusting the only true God and turning to trusting in anything or anyone other than Him.
It can NOT only be money, power, intellect, position, favor, possessions etc., but it can also be the arrogance of having and maintaining, in comparison to others, more money, power, intellect, position, favor, possessions etc. There is an arrogance that emanates a stench from such a person that reaches the very nostrils of God.
God hates idolatry and pride is the thought of superiority, which is another form of idolatry, as one puts himself in that place that only God should occupy.
James 4:6 - "But He gives more grace. Therefore it says, 'God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble.'"
Israel thought it knew better than God, and trusted in riches, external favor and relationships with others, even worshipping foreign gods. But God deemed them a whore for this. It's a clearly defined position a nation chose and we can easily fall into if we are not choosing daily and even by the moment who is that Person we trust and walk with.
Know that this is who God is and He pursues and loves you perfectly - Hosea 11:4 - "I led them with cords of kindness, with the bands of love, and I became to them as one who eases the yoke on their jaws, and I bent down to them and fed them."
There is nothing and no one else that will satisfy a person - only the true God.
Hosea 14:9 - "Whoever is wise, let him understand these things; whoever is discerning, let him know them; for the ways of the LORD are right, and the upright walk in them, but transgressors stumble in them."
Saturday, August 29, 2015
Ephesians 2:10 - You Matter This Much!
There are times in my life that I have to admit that I need a little encouragement to keep going and there is no better encouragement that can come my way than from the Lord Himself.
Maybe you're like that also and you need a little reminder of your value in God's eyes. Ephesians 2:10 not only reminds us that our lives have purpose and we are to act in accordance to that purpose, but also that there is a work that God desires to do THROUGH us, and IN us, and BEFORE us.
This is absolutely INSPIRING and AMAZING when I thought about it.
#1 - We are HIS workmanship - Jesus is the Master Craftsman, the Potter and we are His object of art, of beauty - He sees what no one else does; His vision goes beyond the block of wood or the lump of clay; He holds us in His hands for the purpose of making us into a beautiful vessel that honors and blesses Him.
#2 - We are created IN Christ FOR GOOD WORKS - There useful, specific and practical reasons for the work that Jesus is performing in our lives; it is a good reason for good works that are established by our Good Shepherd. This is a plan that He had established BEFORE we were even formed in our mother's womb.
#3 - We are a God's workmanship and are designed to live out this plan in our lives.
AND, there is one more important point to consider - God goes before us and around us and is with us to arrange everything in such a way that we are capable of fulfilling His plans in our lives; we just need to be willing - acknowledging Him, growing in our relationship with Him through reading His Word, prayer and fellowship, and being aware of our surroundings so as to respond in ways that He is glorified.
God makes sure that everything is perfectly arranged for you, so that you may walk out the plans that He has established for you to accomplish - you are loved and valued that much!
This day matters and so do you.
All to His glory - Raul
Friday, November 07, 2014
Focus on YOUR Church
You mentioned casually in your last letter that the patient has continued to attend one church, and one only, since he was converted, and that he is not wholly pleased with it. May I ask what you are about? Why have I no report on the causes of his fidelity to the parish church? Do you realize that unless it is due to indifference it is a very bad thing? Surely you know that if a man can't be cured of churchgoing, the next best thing is to send him all over the neighborhood looking for the church that 'suits' him until he becomes a taster or connoisseur of churches. - C.S. Lewis, The Screwtape Letters
Focus on the church God has placed you in, get to work in building His kingdom from there.
Bringing our effort into a collective focus brings heat; anything else is a division of sight, cold blindness, or at best lukewarm spew.
Tuesday, May 13, 2014
Does Jesus Cut to the Heart or is He Just Over Your Heart?
Jesus is a powerful Name! In fact, it is the Name above all names.
Salvation comes through Christ alone (Acts 4:12; John 14:6).
Prior to these verses, Peter preached to a multitude of men that had gathered, telling them about how Jesus had been prophesied about and those things had been fulfilled before their very eyes. And when Peter said it is He that they themselves had crucified, they were "cut to the heart" In other words, they realized what they had done and were remorseful. And then they asked, "What shall we do?"
Great question! Because when you realize how much God loves you, even sending His Son to die for your sins and through Him offers you eternity with Him you too will be cut to the heart and wonder what to do to make things right.
Peter said, "Repent and be baptized..." Repent is simply a turning away from sin and turning to Jesus. Jesus will meet you in the very spot you decide to turn around. The LORD simply asks you to receive His Son.
Some people just wear a cross over their heart, but will you be cut to the heart, knowing that God has called you to His heart with an eternal love?
Monday, May 12, 2014
Restore a kingdom for temporal people or people for an Eternal Kingdom?
Money is for Using
Sunday, April 06, 2014
D.L. Moody on Evangelism
Mr. Moody was adept at turning adverse circumstances into favorable witnessing opportunities because he was always on the alert to win souls. Dr. Clinton N. Howard relates the following interesting incident which occurred in Moody's Buffalo, New York, campaign in Howard's boyhood:
As Moody was returning after a night meeting on a crowded Madison streetcar as a strap-hanger, a rider asked who the big man was. Told he was Moody, the revivalist, the scoffer asked him a question, "Hey, Sky Pilot! How far is it from Chicago to heaven?"Quick as lightning, Moody answered, "One step; will you take it?"Pushing his way to the door, the man dropped from the rear platform into the street, followed by Moody, who reached the platform, funneled his hands, and shouted to the fleeing sinner, "One step from Chicago to heaven. One step! Will you take it?"On the following night, Moody related the incident at the close of his sermon, and repeated, "One step-one step-one step, from Chicago to heaven. Who will be the first to take it tonight?" Out from the rear of the house came a man pushing his way to the platform, saying, "I'll take that step tonight!" It was the man who had asked the question of the "Sky Pilot" the night before! 5
D. L. Moody recognized that no two persons were exactly alike and that it was impossible to lay down hard-and-fast rules for dealing with inquirers. But he did practice and teach some general principles for dealing with souls. A few of them are included in the following quotation from Mr. Moody:
Always use your Bible in personal dealing. Do not trust to memory, but make the person read the verse for himself. Do not use printed slips or books. Hence, if convenient, always carry a Bible or New Testament with you.It is a good thing to get a man on his knees, but don't get him there before he is ready. You may have to talk to him two hours before you can get him that far along...Sometimes a few minutes in prayer have done more for a man than two hours in talk. When the Spirit of God has led him so far that he is willing to have you pray with him; he is not very far from the Kingdom. Ask him to pray for himself. If he doesn't want to pray, let him use a Bible prayer; get him to repeat, for example, "Lord, help me!" Tell the man, "If the Lord helped that poor woman, He will help you if you make the same prayer. He will give you a new heart if you pray from the heart." Don't send a man home to pray. Of course, he should pray at home, but I would rather get his lips open at once. It is a good thing for a man to hear his own voice in prayer. It is a good thing for him to cry out, "God be merciful to me, a sinner!"Urge an immediate decision, but never tell a man he is converted. Never tell him he is saved. Let the Holy Spirit reveal that to him...Always be prepared to do personal work...Do the work boldly. Don't take those in a position in life above your own, but as a rule, take those on the same footing. Don't deal with a person of the opposite sex if it can be otherwise arranged. Bend all your endeavors to answer for poor, struggling souls that question of such importance to them, "What must I do to be saved?"
Thursday, March 27, 2014
Lead Others to Jesus by Word and Deed
Hebrews 12:1-2 - "Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us also lay aside every weight, and sin which clings so closely, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, 2 looking to Jesus, the founder and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is seated at the right hand of the throne of God."
Is the subtlety of seemingly inconsequential compromises undermining your Christian witness?